Putting a stop

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If the world is to rate the top considerate humans on earth, I should be among the top 10 because there are things that people take likely which I take into deep consideration because everyone ought to be treated fairly and encouraged at every given spot. My neighbour, Nelson isn't like that, 'considering' is not in his dictionary.

Exactly Tuesday of last two weeks, it was very early in the morning when I heard my door make a sound and it opened by Nelson.

"Bro good morning. Please I want to drop my phone for you to help me charge in case electricity comes and this pair of trousers, help me to iron it. Thank you" He dropped his two phones on my table, dropped the extension box and the chargers close to my sound system and went on to drop a pair of black trousers on top of the heap of clothes in a corner.

"Okay, no wahala(no problem)" I responded and he left.

Nelson does menial jobs and he leaves the house very early because he treks to the site.

After he left, something came up to my mind and I had to pause typing on my phone to reflect. Nelson has been dropping clothes which I iron for him but he never pays.
'Wait, does this guy think I'm doing these for free for him? I thought he would use his sense to pay up since I never dragged him'

That's a wake-up call for me because there's no way I would be burning my fuel, to work on his clothes and he collects them without considering to pay.
That day I decided to iron the clothes for him and when he comes back in the evening, remind him to start paying because if I continue leaving it, it's going to turn into a habit.

All through the day, anytime my mind thought of the compulsory task in the evening, my mind would start running to and fro on, thinking about the best way to approach him so it wouldn't turn sour because I didn't know maybe he had the mind to pay but was accumulating them, to sum up to a huge amount. I know it's my right to ask for payment but I needed to do it in a very polite way.

Time was around 7:30 pm when I saw him walk into the compound, I was seated outside with my airpod plugged into my ears listening to music and I had a bottle of lacasera on top of the wooden flat chair I was resting my legs on to avoid mosquito bite.

"My man good evening oooo! Did you iron the trousers for me?" He greeted me from the spot he was while walking closer to me.

"Good evening bro. Welcome. Yes, I ironed it." I responded without judging the 'for me' he always adds whenever he comes with such a request which always insinuates it's for free.

"Okay, please help me to bring it"

His words made me startle. He hadn't gone inside, he was still having his bag on his back. This has been his habit, he doesn't hesitate to collect his clothes whenever he comes back from work even though I will be inconvenienced at that time.

He was still standing beside me and waiting for me to go inside and bring his pair of trousers. I sluggishly got up, walked in and came out with the well-ironed pair of black trousers and immediately I gave it to him, he started heading to his door when I politely called him back.
"Bro wait, how far? I haven't seen your hand ever since I've been helping you to work on your clothes" I made sure I stressed the 'helping' because that's his hit word anytime he comes.

"Ohhhh! You haven't been reminding me and my mind has not been going there. You should have been reminding me" he said with boldness written all over him but I knew that the boldness was a borrowed one because I knew my words touched his bone.

I smiled in my heart, my words touched him and that's all that mattered. He left that day and guess what, when he was going to work the following day, he came and dropped two thousand Naira for my pay and he pleaded as he dropped that. It's my money and I collected it without giving him the pitiful face he was expecting because according to him, he coughed out the money from what he had budgeted for something.

Thanks for reading.

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Lol, that guy wanted to be smart but you played him well.

Sometimes some people can take things for granted making you look like a fool.

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Yeah. In his mind, I know he was taking me for a fool, not knowing I was observing him with long rope.
Thank you for stopping by

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For me, I feel the guy was being rude as well as entitled to it. Because how do I keep reminding you for payment when I don't remind you to bring your clothes for ironing and phone for charging.

There was no better way to have told him than you have, and like you said, his consideration level is super low.

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Exactly! His consideration level is at 1%.
If that's actually his habit, it's going to be hard for him when he meet people that don't take nonsense.
Thanks for stopping by.


Check X, I dropped something

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You're truly one of the most considerate people. I mean, why should he even expect you to remind him to pay what he owes? I'm glad you dealt with him in the best way possible.

Happy New Month 🎊

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My neighbour is one of a kind. Imagine that low thinking.
Me? Doing such work for him in the tough economy? No way!
Thank you for stopping by

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If only our world can really be like this, do you know that every single time I always admire how and why our world should be a better place to be as a whole lot of people are facing things

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A better world is all we are praying and hoping for.
Thank you for stopping by bro

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If you didn’t ask, you would have continued doing the free job till date. I love your matured approach and the result came as expected.

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That's it.
Imagine how he took it as entitlement.
I'm glad my approach didn't spoil the relationship

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😂🤣😂... That feeling to demand for your own money eh .. because you don't want to be tagged a bad person. Good thing you asked him for it, otherwise that your urgent 2k for be voice.

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Nice experienced combination of empathy, admiration and introspection. This served to underline the significance of being nice as well as being assertive and having self-respect. Many people could take tips from your transformation on how they should stand for themselves!. It is important to understand that one is valuable and make sure that this fact is taken into account by surrounding people.

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Really... considerate kingsleyy.. lmao 🤣..biko, where's ur laundry located let me pack my husband clothes to u as well since you will consider me,
Like, in this high cost of fuel, u are considering? Lol
Bossssss meeeee
I hail thee oo
Your guy is working and he didn't see reasons to pay ...it's well oo

#dreemerforlife

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I get soft mind, that's why😅

Some people are just not considerate. I guess that's home-bringing and the parents/guardians didn't try at all. If it's not a home thing, then it's going to choke Him oooo!

Thank you for stopping by ma

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Who doesn't like being offered free services,he must have felt that you purposely didn't ask him for the money because your intention was to do it for free. After all you are just "helping" him, what are friends for 😂

Pop in from #dreemport
#Dreemerforlife

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It's the 'helping' for me.😂
Thank God his senses are back and acting like a reasonable person😅

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Well it was the action you took that reshaped is mentality, putting his senses back on track 😂

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