The traits I don't like

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Greetings!

The truth remains that no matter how we try to be sociable, lovable by all, and wanting to like everyone and everything, there are some basic things we dislike so differently, and it's very natural.
For me, I have a lot of them, and in this context, I'm going to share some of them.

Vocal loudness trait(loudmouthedness):

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Maybe it's because I'm a very quiet person and don't shout while talking. It gives me a deep headache whenever I hear someone talking so loudly that people in the neighboring block can hear them. I have many such people in my current place of residence, and each time they start, I keep asking myself if this is how God created them or if they just picked up the habit due to happiness in their mood or something else.

There's a lady, very beautiful, but when she starts talking, her natural beauty vanishes because of how loud she sounds. Her loud talks have a way of twisting her face in a funny way whenever she's talking. It gets worse whenever she's on a phone call with her family members and speaking their native language. Oh my God! The scene is always disgusting.
It's not like I hate her; it's just that the way she talks puts me off.

Very, very secretive people:
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Yeah, I know it's good to keep secrets, which in one way or another, we are all involved in. But when it becomes excessive, it puts me off. Don't get me wrong yet; let me give you a clear scenario of what I'm talking about:

There's a guy in my WhatsApp group chat, and anytime he comes to my DM for inquiries, he puts up some irrelevant coverings, and it makes me wonder.
I was bearing it and didn't want to tell him to stop acting excessively in my DM because I didn't need any of his personal details on the screenshots he normally brought. But one day, I lost it, and I had to talk a little sense into him. He was to make a screenshot of a dashboard of a site for me. He did it, and while sending it, he blurred the ID number, which was his WhatsApp number as well, and to make it worse, he sent it as a one-time view.

When I saw it, I went to my account, traced his account because it's accessible to everyone, and I made the screenshot of his dashboard with the number he was covering and sent it to him. I pointed out to him that the ID he was hiding is his WhatsApp number, which he was using to chat with me. If I wanted to harm him, I could do that easily.

I hate this habit to the core!

Some people in this blockchain, if you ask them to make a screenshot of their first layer wallet, they blur the part having the balance, and that's a foolish act of secrecy because it's accessible and seeable by anyone. So why cover it?
Sometimes, it's not just about secrecy but foolishness too, and it sucks!

Let me drop my pen here because it seems I'm pouring out much 😅

Oh, how I am coping with such traits around me?

I try as much as possible to avoid them. That's just it.

Thanks for reading.

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Some people are highly secretive, even for stuffs that are open to the general public you still want to keep it a secret.

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That habit sucks.
If you meet any of them, please preach to them 😂
Thank you for stopping by

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Heheheh
A lady with a loud voice will easily put me off
What is she? A Pablo?
I like her soft and cool not to be acting like @captainman 🤣🤣🤣
Also. I don’t like people that are too secretive. There is this cousin that’s staying with us, more like a half cousin, anytime she wants to receive call from her mom, she will excuse herself yet we do all things in her presence

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There is this cousin that’s staying with us, more like a half cousin, anytime she wants to receive call from her mom, she will excuse herself yet we do all things in her presence

This one sucks!
One day, collect the phone from her and smash it on the floor....to caution her.
But you go buy the phone after eyes dn clear😂

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😅😅😅
I don’t think I have ever been that angry before

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This is a very nice write up man.
Me too I hate secrecy and I don't practice too.
@fashtioluwa, we will have to talk about this later, hehe.

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Overly secretive should be labelled as a sin, let the people involved go to hell😂

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I believe that when a person speaks and almost shouts, they want to appear louder than they are and try to dominate the situation they are discussing. These people often realize that raising the tone of voice produces fear, offends and causes the interlocutor to get upset.

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Yeah, I get the fact where loud talks are used to push down a feeling or emotions to the receiver, but in a case where the talk is a normal one, these people should learn now to control their sound.

Thank you so much for stopping by

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Loud people give me headache too especially when they pair it with not talking sense.

Haha please have mercy on the poor lady, labeling her "disgusting" it's a bit harsh now.😅

And Some people just don't know where to draw the line between being private or over sharing and being secretive when involving personal information. I wouldn't really frown on that if it's just their personal information unless if they are gatekeeping information that could help me.

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Loud people give me headache too especially when they pair it with not talking sense.

Lol😂. Anything from a loud talk don't often make sense.

Haha please have mercy on the poor lady, labeling her "disgusting" it's a bit harsh now.😅

It seems you haven't seen people like that.
You don't know my local dialect. How about you see me in public, making call and speaking that dialect very loudly as if I'm preaching to 5000 souls without microphone 😂.

For secrecy, just like you said, some people don't know how to draw lines.

Thank you for stopping by.
Let me check if you made a post
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How about you see me in public, making call and speaking that dialect very loudly as if I'm preaching to 5000 souls without microphone 😂.

I get your point.😅

Sometimes those calls can be interesting, and a great tea to listen. One can even be tempted to follow up after the call and ask for a full story. 😅

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Yeye girl😂

Go and search for the meaning of 'yeye'.
I hope Google don't give you another thing
!lolz 😂😂😂

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Hahaha, I needed to laugh at this bcoz it occurs all the time around me.

As long as you are in Lagos, one trait is noise or loudmouthedness like you called it. Over time, we just learn to bear with it

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Lol😂
All the Yoruba people that I know are very loud whenever they're talking.
There's no small talk to them😂

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I now understand the reason for being jittery before listening to the voice note 😁

There are people who think they're being secretive but in the real sense, it's a display of foolishness. I have someone who sends messages and later delete. Funnily enough, the messages pop up on my screen so I read them even before opening to reply as long as my screen is on.

I've stopped responding to him for two straight days now so he won't have to type what he'd later delete.

Let me drop my pen here because it seems I'm pouring out much

😂 😂
You really poured out.
The dislike you have for the habits you highlighted are visible from the write up.

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I now understand the reason for being jittery before listening to the voice note.

Abeg now😂😂😂

The message deleting thing is one I laugh at always. I don't know whether people don't know that it's more interesting to read a message via notification especially when someone is busy. If I'm on, my eyes catch messages at a very quick glance from notification.

Thank you for stopping by dear

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Uncle Kingsley, you only mentioned two na. Where is the third dislike? 😆😆
Do you know some people hide their age and will never tell you? I see it as foolishness. Why hide age? I dislike such thing. Something I am proud to say to everyone. Lol
You see that guy you talked about, they are plenty around me. I wonder why? 😆

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Age own?
That one is on another level.
It gets to worst when they don't want to tell you their age and still come out begging for birthday wishes and gifts😂.
Your gender on this 😂.

You see that guy you talked about, they are plenty around me. I wonder why? 😆

It's absolute f o o l i s h n e s s 😎

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Hehehe 😀
Yes, I agree that ladies are found mostly in hiding their age. Nonsense 🙂

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I equally dislike the habit of top much secrecy. Why hide what is public knowledge? People like screenshots chats and record normal calls because they hardly trust anyone.

#dreemerforlife

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Bịa Kingsley, allow people to secret in peace of gịnịkwa, is it your secret? 🤣🤣.

Sadly, I have a loud voice, this one na carry come, so you better avoid me. 🙄. I try to control it but not when I'm pissed with something 🤦. Heavens will fall. 🚶

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Very funny😂😂, I don't like being around loud people too, I get bored and tired easily.
But the guy sef own too much naw😂
#dreemport

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I am very secretive oo 😂🤣... even my husband, I do hide something from him..oya come and beat me..lolz
Just kidding..I don't like such either especially from hubby

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Irrational secrecy! !LOLZS Yeah, pretty silly and irritating. As for loud people... I'm not sure I would cope if quite a few of my neighbours were loud. We used to have one loud neighbour and she drove me dilly hahaha I guess you either need to soundproof your home or try to show her what she sounds like! 😂

#dreemerforlife

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How I wish these set of people who possess the listed traits, could only know the repercussions of such practices.
#dreemerforlife

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Yeah, I think they don't know especially the overly secretive. Or maybe they know but steeze wouldn't allow them to be like normal human😂

Thank you for stopping by boss

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😂😂😂😂 it's that one-time view that always pisses me off. Like what if I didn't see it well the first time, will I have to beg you to resend?

Anyone who is not comfortable with sending info to me should just keep it to themselves.

Please take pity on the lady, some of us just swallow speaker and don't know how to talk small small.

#dreemerforlife

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The one time view sucks!
This same guy that I talked about, there was a time he sent a one time view screenshot for me to check and compare with what I have . I viewed and left to my dashboard and returning, I saw that it has wiped off(one time view), I just snubbed him.😅

Please take pity on the lady, some of us just swallow speaker and don't know how to talk small small

Lol😅
Is Rukkie like that? 😎

Thank you for stopping by
!luv

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